Prescott Place

As I do every night, I went in to check on Nolan before going to bed.  This is what I found as I entered.

Recently Nolan has taken more of an interest in how he dresses. He insists on choosing his own clothes and actually does a fairly good job at matching outfits.   Apparently tomorrow he will be going with a blue palette option.

Love. This. Kid.

A couple of weeks ago our little family met James’ parents, sister, brother-in-law, and their daughter in Galveston for a fun beach getaway. Even though the oil spill affected the location of our vacation, it did not matter. We all agreed as along as we were together, that was the most important part! It was so fun to see the cousins play together and enjoy each other’s company. It is nice that all the adults enjoy each others company too!

I definitely think James and I have two “beach boys” on our hands. We already knew that Nolan loved the water, but I think Griffin had just as much fun. In typical Griffin fashion, he was very unsure of the sand and water at first, but warmed up to the beach in no time. Hearing him squeal as the waves rushed to him was priceless! Nolan learned how to body board and “attempted” surfing as well. He would have stayed in the water all day ever day if we would have let him! He asked me today “Now when are we going back to the beach?” He is a fish no doubt!

On our way home we stopped at the Houston Space Center. It was a fun little detour.

Thanks to James’ parents for a wonderful vacation!

Here are pictures from the trip!

First Day of School September 2007

(2 1/2 years old)

Last Day of School, May 2010

(5 1/2 years old)

As Griffin and I headed down the highway towards his graduation, I was filled with so many thoughts. Tears welled up in my eyes. I have been dreaming of the day I would no longer have to make the 22 minute drive each way three times a week to and from Nolan’s school, but today I would have been given anything for more time. Why does time always go so fast?

As we settled into our seats I saw the five classes that were a part of the 12:30 graduation begin to line up at the back of the church. Tears welled up in my eyes. I snuck to the back of the church to take a quick picture. The kids were so excited. So oblivious to the significance of this day, at this time. Nolan smiled and waved. I wished him good luck as I walked away.

As soon as the music “Pomp and Circumstance” began playing, tears welled up my eyes again. The children made their way from the back of the church to the front. Children waved, smiled, and eagerly looked for their parents. Once all of the children were situated on the risers, they sang two songs. In typical preschool fashion, some belted out the lyrics with coordinating hand and body movements, while others took the more relaxed approach. Nolan always seems to fall somewhere in the middle. Words cannot describe how absolutely adorable these “concerts” are at this age. I will miss them so much.

After brief comments from the Director of the preschool, she introduced the Children’s pastor. She told us to grab our kleenex and cameras for what was to come as the pastor sang. Once the song began, a slide show of the graduates were displayed on three large screens. Starting in alphabetical order, each child’s baby picture and graduation picture was displayed along with their name. We were asked at the beginning of the year to bring a baby picture, but the reason was never explained. I had completely forgotten about it. The graduation picture was a complete surprise. This picture must have been made when their individual school pictures were taken. We had no idea this had been coordinated. Tears not only welled up in my eyes, but flowed down my cheeks. The pastor sang two songs as the graduates’ pictures were displayed. The lyrics to the second song, “Let Them Be Little” were so perfect. So touching. Tears continued to flow.

“I can remember when you fit in the palm of my hand.
You felt so good in it; no bigger than a minute.
How it amazes me you’re changin’ with every blink.
Faster than a flower blooms, they grow up all too soon.

So let them be little,
‘Cause they’re only that way for a while.
Give ‘em hope, give them praise,
Give them love every day.
Let ‘em cry, let ‘em giggle,
Let ‘em sleep in the middle,
Oh, but let them be little.

I never felt so much in one little tender touch.
I live for those kisses, your prayers an’ your wishes.
An’ now you’re teachin’ me how only a child can see.
Tonight, while we’re on our knees, all I ask is:

Please, let them be little,
‘Cause they’re only that way for a while.
Give them hope, give them praise,
Give them love every day.
Let ‘em cry, let ‘em giggle,
Let ‘em sleep in the middle,
Oh, but let them be little.

The so innocent, precious soul:
You turn around, an’ it’s time to let them go.

So let them be little,
‘Cause they’re only that way for a while.
Give them hope, give ‘em praise,
Give them love every day.
Let ‘em cry, let ‘em giggle,
Let them sleep in the middle,
Oh, but let them be little.

Let them be little.”

(Artist and Lyrics by Billy Dean)

After this massive tear jerker, the first class lined up for the presentation of their diplomas. As the director read the first child’s name, she read a brief description of the child written by the teachers. It did not dawn on me until tonight that Nolan’s teachers had asked each of the parents to describe their child in one word. This word was incorporated into the child’s description. When it was finally Nolan’s turn he smiled, kicked his legs back and forth in his chair, and waited for his name to be called. The director said, “He is always looking for some way to help and is always quick to apologize for any mishaps, he is Mr. Conscientious, Mr. Nolan Prescott.” And with that he hopped down out of his seat, reached for his diploma as he shook the hands of the Director, Two assistant Directors, and his teachers who moved his tassle from one side to the other. For once, tears did not well up in my eyes. i was just proud in that moment.

After the eighty or so children had officially “graduated” they stood to cheer and wave. The parents cheered and waved back.

And as quickly as the ceremony began, it was over. Once outside the class took one last picture as a group. Hugs, high fives, cheers, and requests to remove the “itchy” caps occurred. The parents and students presented our teachers with vases that had been painted using the finger prints of each of the students along with flowers and a gift card. A celebration with cake and lemonade and many more pictures were taken. Nolan and his best friend Ben tackled and wrestled with each other, continued their tradition of acting silly together and soaked in this last time together in school. Both Nolan and Ben have acknowledged their fear of not seeing each other anymore. it absolutely breaks our hearts that they will not be in school together next year. Ben’s parents and James and i hope the boys will not be “lost” without each other next year.

We walked back to the classroom one last time to collect backpacks. Final thank you’s and goodbyes were said. Nolan and Ben gave each other big hugs and said see you at camp in a couple of weeks. And with that we walked out of the school for the last time.

When Nolan got home he quickly wanted out of his dress clothes. On his own he went and got his new elementary school spirit shirt and put it on. He has moved on.

Once again, tears welled up in my eyes.

Onward we go…..whether I like it or not.

Click HERE  for more pictures from the day.

So tonight I was at the neighborhood monthly ladies Bunko (or “Drunko” as it often is referred to apparently by some of the husbands of said group). Since about half the ladies have a child starting Kindergarten next year we were of course discussing this. The subject of the Kindergarten Kick Off came up. One of the mothers said she when she asked her son about the hour he told her how they worked on their alphabet, practiced counting various things around the room, and read books. I reluctantly shared with her that when I picked Nolan up I was told by the Kindergarten teacher that Nolan showed the group his break dancing skills and that the only other piece of information I received was that they did the Chicken Dance. Huh? Their classrooms were right next to each other. How is this possible? The other ladies laughed (to my horror and embarrassment of course). I proceeded to say that I am convinced that Nolan now has a black mark by his name. The mother then said, “Well actually that is funny you mention that. I was at the school the next day and I bumped into the teacher that Casey had last night. I asked her to be honest regarding if they were making mental notes of the kids.” The mom said the teacher laughed and said “Actually we were!” I KNEW IT!!!

So much for starting off on the right foot.

(Outside the Kindergarten Wing)

Attend Kindergarten Kick Off

Almost two weeks ago we went to Nolan’s new elementary school for orientation. The purpose was two fold. One for the children to meet the Kindergarten team, spend time in their future classrooms and see the school. The parents simultaneously attended an information meeting. And I do mean an informational meeting. My head was spinning by the time we left (for many reasons though as you can imagine).

At check in we were enthusiastically welcomed by elementary school staff and briefly told about the evening. Nolan was quickly whisked away to the Kindergarten “Pod” as they call it while James and I (and our sidekick Griffin) were ushered into the gym. As James and I walked in the opposite direction as Nolan I found myself noticing the symbolism as to what is to come in three short months.

For almost the next hour the parents heard from the principal, assistant principal and school counselor. We were informed about school policies, carpool lanes, various programs and activities offered through the school and general expectations for the next year. We were reminded that Kindergarten has changed significantly since we started elementary school. Expectations have drastically changed for these five year olds. “They will hit the ground running regarding their learning and what is expected regarding their education,” we were told by the principal. In other words, Kindergarten is serious business. The children will be challenged and the expectations for what they should already know and what they will learn next year is high.

When the school counselor spoke she started by reading a sweet poem/story about a little girl getting onto the school bus on her first day of Kindergarten. The story detailed the fabulous first day of this little girl, but how hard it was for her parents to cope and adjust. Of course I instantly could relate to the story and how I would be feeling. The school counselor, like any good therapist, acknowledged how hard this transition often is for the parents and reflected how we may be feeling. She normalized these feelings and it felt good. (Yes, I teared up several times as she spoke).

She also told us about how the first day of school will work. She invited us to the “Tears and Cheers” breakfast held directly after we settle our children at their desks on the first day. This is a support meeting of sorts, hosted by the school, to soothe the parents and celebrate this momentous first day. I was very touched by this gesture and made me love the school even more. I. AM. NOT. ALONE. Many other parents will struggle, as I will.

When the meeting was over we went to the Kindergarten “Pod” to retrieve Nolan in his designated classroom for the evening. As we were greeted and asked who were to there to pick up, the teacher said and I quote, “Nolan is quite the break dancer. He showed us all his moves.” BACK UP is what I thought in my head. Excuse me? What did you say? Why in the world was Nolan break dancing? I thought.   I am absolutely convinced the teachers were taking mental notes on these future Kindergarteners and Nolan already has a black mark by his name. He ran over to James and I. He was so excited. He told us about everything they had done in that hour. Also in typical Nolan fashion, he told us he already made two friends. He repeatedly asked how many days until Kindergarten starts and his wish that it would start tomorrow. Nolan and I could not be more apart in our wishes.

As much as I am struggling a great deal with this, I am so happy and excited for Nolan. He cannot wait for the school year to start. I am picking up his school spirit shirt tomorrow. He can’t wait to wear it. I truly could not ask for more. I am lucky he is so excited and ready. What if he was dreading it? Now that would be awful. It is just me.

Nolan “graduates” this Thursday from preschool. They will have a formal graduation with a cap and gown. All Nolan has told me is that he is happy that the children will only sing two songs (as opposed to seven apparently at Spring Sing) and that the cap is itchy. Typical.

I teared up as I walked the hallway towards Nolan’s classroom on Monday. We have so many wonderful memories from his school. He has grown and changed so much from the first day I dropped him off at the door to his classroom when he was 2 ½ years old. Where has the time gone? Where has it gone?

I received an email from the mom of Nolan’s best school friend yesterday. She asked how I was “holding up” regarding graduation this week. She said she is basket case and will bawl her eyes out on Thursday. We hope to sit next to each other for moral support. I am not alone. Not alone regarding all the parents who will be sad at graduation and not alone on Nolan’s first day of Kindergarten. This much I know. The rest? Well I am just taking it one step at a time.